After spending the last few days reading Nobody’s Girl, A Memoir of Surviving Abuse and Fighting For Justice, by Virginia Giuffre about her life before, during, and after Jeffrey Epstein, I have three comments: It is not an easy read. It is not easy to put down. It is a must read. If you are anything like me, you will feel gutted when you read how a…
Does This Scarf Make Me Look Old and Fat?
As if I don’t have enough insecurities already about my fashion choices, The New York Times columnist Alisha Haridisani Gupta has given me one more thing to keep me awake worrying at night. In her recent piece, Does Your Winter Scarf Make You Look Old? Gupta suggests that our choice of scarf can make or break the world’s perception of our fashion savoir faire. When…
Dementia Puts A Different Spin On The Meaning Of Love on Valentine’s Day
Last week, when I stood in the card aisle at the drug store picking out an appropriate Valentine’s Day card for my husband, I acknowledged a new reality in my life. My husband has dementia, and the routines of daily life are now a bit different from when we first came together. This year, I also picked out a Valentine—for myself—from him. Now that he…
How Do We Stop The Sky From Falling?
Tempting as it may be to pat ourselves on the back for being Canadian, we are not immune to the toxicity on display in the United States these days. While Canadians take pride in our shared belief in taking care of and being kind to our fellow citizens, the political poison is too close for comfort. I am just a simple, retired old baby boomer,…
When Does Customer Service Becomes a Disservice?
If you’re like me, you’ve probably been unsuccessful in reaching a real human being when you’ve tried to call any of your service providers. Whether it’s internet, TV streaming, telephone, utility companies, bank, or whatever, they have all embraced computerized bots that attempt to resolve our problems without giving us the option of speaking to a live person. The practice of being directed through the…
When Do We Age Out Of Having A Pet?
Anyone who has ever owned a pet understands the extreme grief we experience when a beloved pet reaches the end of the yellow brick road and crosses the rainbow bridge. It is agonizing. I’ve had dogs for most of my life. I grew up with yellow Labrador retrievers, although as a child I didn’t fully comprehend the positive impact those lovely creatures would have on…