Thoughts on A Room of One’s Own

Spoiler alert: this is not a book review so relax and enjoy some thoughts on serenity. Virginia Woolf knew what she was talking about when she penned her famous story about the importance of women having their own private space in the home. Hers was devoted to writing and reflection. She recognized and advocated for financial independence and privacy in women's lives. When she was alive in the first half of the twentieth century women were considered second class citizens. Many could not vote, work outside the home, have their…

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What is disposable fashion?

Are you sitting down? Burberry recently incinerated $37 million worth of their luxury brand merchandise that didn't sell. Rather than dilute the cachet of their brand by offering it at discounted prices to the great unwashed masses (like us), they torched it. It must be lovely to have a business with such generous markups and profit margins that you can afford to just set fire to $37 million. That act of destruction reminded me of how casually we treat our possessions regardless of the cost. Not only are fashions from…

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It’s the most wonderful day of the week

Mondays come with multiple benefits. Not only because I'm retired and no longer have to get up at the crack of dawn and go to work but also because Monday is change-the-sheets day. When we're retired, it's often those simple things that give us enormous pleasure. I"ll never understand how people can wake up in the morning and go to work or start their day without making their bed. The only thing lovelier than sliding into nice, smooth, cool sheets at the end of the day is when they're freshly…

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‘Tis the season for a Miss Manners refresher

Globe and Mail columnist David Eddy has again printed a letter from a reader frustrated and disappointed that she never received a thank you for a shower gift. Eddy advised politely addressing the issue with the gift recipient by gently letting her know you would have appreciated a thank you note. This should be done in person but an email is also acceptable. And it wouldn't hurt to remind the recipient that they "should probably send one every time they receive a gift". Two years ago I published a piece…

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Help! I’ve O.D.’d on black and white

At what point does safe, so-called classic dressing become just plain boring? We've always been told that basic black and white is a never-fail look for any occasion. It's safe, easy to assemble and accessorize and we can be assured of never feeling self-conscious. I've religiously adhered to that principle for far too long and my closet now looks like a nun lives here. It's time I kicked the "habit". I'm embarrassed to tell you how many pairs of black pants I own, not to mention black and white blouses,…

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Want to feel better about how you look?

Who among us doesn't look at magazines or at our own bodies in the privacy of bedroom mirrors or in retail store fitting rooms and wish we were thinner, taller or prettier. The media sets impossibly high standards for appearance and even though we know those pictures are extensively Photoshopped and otherwise altered, we can't help feeling like we fall short. Well, we're not short, fat or abnormal. Models are genetic freaks. We're the normal ones. Here are some statistics that will make you feel a whole lot better about…

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