All The Money In The World . . . doesn’t buy happiness

If you're a boomer like me, you probably remember the sensational newspaper coverage of a brutal kidnapping in the early seventies. Paul Getty, the sixteen-year-old grandson of the world's richest man J. Paul Getty, was snatched off the street in Rome and held for ransom of $17 million. The drama played out for several months. Getty Sr. refused to pay the ransom while the Calabrian organized crime ring who kidnapped him grew increasingly desperate. I clearly remember the universal shock and horror when we read that the kidnappers amputated Getty…

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Living my dreams through Vanity Fair’s Tina Brown

What could be more enthralling than reading someone's diary, especially someone who regularly rubs shoulders with the rich and famous? It feels forbidden, furtive, even a bit titillating. We're discovering that person's innermost thoughts, opinions and impressions in the context of their daily life. And when that life is one lived in the rarefied circles of Tina Brown, editor of Vanity Fair magazine from 1984 to 1992, it's delicious beyond words. Which explains why I binge-read her book Vanity Fair Diaries in three or four-hour bursts until my eyes wouldn't…

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What do you do when the lights go out?

Have you experienced a power blackout recently? It's been awhile since we totally lost power but a recent day-long loss of television and internet service (thanks to Ma Bell) resulted in some serious introspection about our marriage. I was reasonably occupied with reading on my iPad and sleeping, two activities at which I excel, but my honey was completely lost. It's scary to think what life would be like if we lost the services we take for granted and are so much a part of our everyday lives. How would…

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Will 2018 be the beginning of the end of oppression of women?

I am a feminist and not being a feminist is a sign of ignorance. I love men and there are a lot of good ones out there. I'm married to one. My friends' husbands are good ones—in fact, the majority of men are good ones. But the bad ones are now being exposed for the scum they are. Predators are dropping like flies. Stephen Colbert recently joked that he'll soon be the only man left on television—keeping our fingers crossed that he's earned that privilege, as I like Stephen Colbert.…

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Dear Santa: All I want for Christmas this year is . . .

For the most part I've been a very good girl this year, more nice than naughty and I've generally tried to be a better person throughout the year. By Santa standards that should qualify me for plenty of loot under the Christmas tree but the truth is I don't want or need a single thing. I'm incredibly lucky and the happiest I've ever been in my life. This was not always the case. In fact, it's the bumps in the road of life that make us truly appreciate the good…

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My Christmas bonus this year? No decorations

There's no rational explanation for why I hate putting up Christmas decorations. Growing up in the fifties and sixties, Christmas was everything we boomers have come to identify with the perfect Christmas. Red and green crepe paper streamers were twisted diagonally across our diningroom ceiling, anchored by a red tissue paper bell hanging from the light fixture. We always had a 'real' tree that filled the livingroom with wonderful spruce or pine fragrance. Single-candle wreaths glowed in our windows  at night and huge, noisy family Christmas dinners were, well, you…

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