Thoughts on A Room of One’s Own

Spoiler alert: this is not a book review so relax and enjoy some thoughts on serenity. Virginia Woolf knew what she was talking about when she penned her famous story about the importance of women having their own private space in the home. Hers was devoted to writing and reflection. She recognized and advocated for financial independence and privacy in women's lives. When she was alive in the first half of the twentieth century women were considered second class citizens. Many could not vote, work outside the home, have their…

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What do you want to be?

When young people graduate, they are officially launched and become full-blown adults. Hopefully these two milestones occur simultaneously. But I keep reading about the stresses faced by young people in choosing their college or university career path. They demand greater support from mental health services to help them cope with the stress. How on earth is a teenager qualified to determine what he or she wants to do with the rest of their lives when they're still coping with acne, learning the ins and outs of the opposite sex and…

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‘Tis the season for a Miss Manners refresher

Globe and Mail columnist David Eddy has again printed a letter from a reader frustrated and disappointed that she never received a thank you for a shower gift. Eddy advised politely addressing the issue with the gift recipient by gently letting her know you would have appreciated a thank you note. This should be done in person but an email is also acceptable. And it wouldn't hurt to remind the recipient that they "should probably send one every time they receive a gift". Two years ago I published a piece…

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Help! I’ve O.D.’d on black and white

At what point does safe, so-called classic dressing become just plain boring? We've always been told that basic black and white is a never-fail look for any occasion. It's safe, easy to assemble and accessorize and we can be assured of never feeling self-conscious. I've religiously adhered to that principle for far too long and my closet now looks like a nun lives here. It's time I kicked the "habit". I'm embarrassed to tell you how many pairs of black pants I own, not to mention black and white blouses,…

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Sharing the joy of reading

I'm a voracious reader but not a fan of book clubs; I prefer to only read what I truly enjoy and not analyze the bejeezus out of it. Reminds me too much of all those painful high school English classes with Mr. Crowther asking "what did the author mean?". Good grief! Who but the author really knows what he or she meant. I'm just in it for the fun of reading. I have an extensive spreadsheet summarizing books I want to read—recommendations picked up from friends, The New York Times…

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Want to feel better about how you look?

Who among us doesn't look at magazines or at our own bodies in the privacy of bedroom mirrors or in retail store fitting rooms and wish we were thinner, taller or prettier. The media sets impossibly high standards for appearance and even though we know those pictures are extensively Photoshopped and otherwise altered, we can't help feeling like we fall short. Well, we're not short, fat or abnormal. Models are genetic freaks. We're the normal ones. Here are some statistics that will make you feel a whole lot better about…

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